Your First Home? Real Advice
from a Mortgage Pro Who's Been There

Buying your first home isn’t just a big step—it’s a life-changing one. But let’s be honest: if you’ve never done it before, it can feel like stepping into a whirlwind of jargon, numbers, and stress. That’s why we sat down with Tim, the owner of Independent Home Finance Inc., who has helped thousands of families across California navigate the process with clarity and confidence. What he shared isn’t sugarcoated sales talk—it’s honest, practical advice every first-time homebuyer needs.

Whether you’re just starting to dream about buying a home or you’re actively searching, this guide will give you the straight talk on what to expect, what to avoid, and how to come out ahead.

1. Start with Your Credit—It’s the Foundation of Everything

Tim doesn’t mince words: “The first thing any first-time homebuyer should do is get their credit checked. You want to come from a position of strength—not weakness.”

Why? Because your credit score affects everything—from the type of loan you can get to the interest rate you’ll pay over the next 30 years. The magic number? 680 or higher.

If you’re under that threshold, you might still qualify for a loan, but you’ll pay more and be stuck with options like FHA loans that come with permanent mortgage insurance. That’s money out of your pocket every month.

Tim’s Tip: Talk to a mortgage broker about doing a soft credit pull—it won’t impact your score but gives them what they need to help you strategize.

2. Know Your Loan Options—and What They Really Mean

Here’s the quick breakdown for first-time homebuyers in California:

  • VA Loans: If you’re a veteran, this is your best option—100% financing with no down payment. You’ll still have to cover closing costs, but there are ways to offset them.
  • Conventional Loans: If your credit is solid (680+), you can get away with as little as 5% down and eventually shed the mortgage insurance.
  • FHA Loans: These are accessible for lower credit scores (580+), but come with long-term mortgage insurance costs that don’t go away unless you put at least 10% down.

Tim says it clearly: “If you can go conventional, always go conventional.”


3. Don’t Just Save for a Down Payment—Budget for the Real Cost of Buying

Most people think you just need a down payment. But Tim emphasizes that a safe and smart purchase means saving for much more:

  • Down Payment: 5% minimum recommended (for a $500,000 home, that’s $25,000).
  • Closing Costs: Plan on 2–3% (another $10,000–$15,000).
  • Agent Fees: New rules may require the buyer to cover their own agent (another 2–2.5%).
  • Emergency Reserves: Tim is a big fan of having at least 12 months of reserves in savings—because once you own the home, every repair is your responsibility.

“Things are going to break. Appliances die. Roofs leak. A home warranty can help, but don’t count on it covering everything,” Tim says.

4. Should You Consider Down Payment Assistance?

Yes—and no. Tim explains that while California has city, county, and state-level programs to help first-time homebuyers, most are heavily income-restricted.

“In California, home prices are so high that most people who can afford a home already earn too much to qualify for the help.”

Still, it’s worth checking with a local broker who can walk you through what’s available in your area.


5. Don’t Skip the Pre-Approval Process

Before you even start shopping, Tim says you must know what you can afford. “I don’t understand why anyone shops without pre-approval. You need to know your numbers before you fall in love with a house.”

Pre-approval means a lender has reviewed your credit, income, and documents. It’s different from pre-qualification, which is just a surface-level estimate.

A strong pre-approval may also include Automated Underwriting System (AUS) approval—giving sellers confidence in your offer.

6. Fixed-Rate Mortgages Are Your Best Friend

Adjustable-rate mortgages (ARMs) might seem appealing if you plan to move in a few years, but Tim strongly advises against them.

“They were a huge part of what led to the housing crash in 2008. People budgeted for one rate and got slammed when their payments jumped.”

Instead, go with a 30-year fixed-rate. It gives you predictability, and if rates drop later, you can refinance.


7. Don’t Be House-Rich and Cash-Poor

It’s tempting to put everything you’ve saved into the house—but that can backfire fast.

Tim advises: “Don’t drain your savings just to increase your down payment. Always have 12 months of reserves. If something goes wrong, you’ll need it.”

That’s why he recommends putting down 5–10% and keeping the rest in savings. You can always pay extra toward the loan later.


8. Understand the True Monthly Payment

Most people focus on just the mortgage and interest—but there’s more:

  • Property Taxes: Estimate 1.25% of the home’s value per year
  • Insurance: Factor in about 0.5% annually (rates have doubled in recent years)
  • HOA Fees: If applicable
  • Solar Panel Contracts: If the previous owner leased them, you inherit the lease—so always check
  • Mello-Roos Taxes: An extra charge in some newer developments that funds infrastructure

9. What Are the Real Closing Costs?

Expect to pay for:

  • Title and Escrow: Around 1%
  • Appraisal: ~$600–800
  • Credit Report & Underwriting Fees
  • Recording Fees & State Charges: California adds about $225 per loan

Tim recommends budgeting another 5% on top of your down payment to cover all the extras.


10. Loan Terms: What You Need to Know

  • 30-Year Fixed: Offers predictability. Make extra payments if you want to pay it off faster.
  • 15-Year Fixed: Lower interest rate, but higher monthly payments. “In today’s market, not worth the squeeze,” Tim says.
  • No Prepayment Penalty: You can pay extra anytime without fees.

Pro Tip: Just one extra payment per year can shave 7 years off a 30-year mortgage.


11. Timeline: How Long Does It Take to Close?

  • Pre-Approval to Closing: 30 to 45 days, on average
  • Steps Involved: Pre-approval → Home shopping → Under contract → Appraisal → Underwriting → Signing → Closing & keys

During this time, you’ll work closely with your loan officer. At Independent Home Finance Inc., that means you stay with the same person the whole time.

“You and I will become best friends,” Tim jokes. “And when it’s done, we’ll go back to being distant friends—until you need me again.”

12. Communication Makes or Breaks the Experience

This process can feel overwhelming, especially the first time around. That’s why communication matters.

Tim’s approach is simple:

  • Daily or every-other-day updates
  • Follow-up emails after every phone call
  • Clear expectations about what’s coming next

If you’re working with someone who doesn’t communicate frequently? That’s a red flag.


Final Thoughts: Start Smart, Stay Steady

There’s no perfect time to buy a house. But there is a smart way to do it.

Focus on what you can control: your credit, your savings, and who you choose to work with. Buying a home isn’t just about today—it’s about securing your future and creating a foundation of wealth for the next generation.

As Tim puts it: “This isn’t just about you. This is about building something you can pass on to your kids. That’s what homeownership really means.”

Get Started with Independent Home Finance Inc.

Ready to talk? Let’s have a real conversation. At Independent Home Finance Inc., we’ll walk you through every step—with honesty, clarity, and a whole lot of communication.

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